Issues are bound to happen in relationships, ability to resolve those issues as partners is what makes marriages last longer.
When fight happens in relationship, there should always be a way to resolve it depending on the person you’re dating.
Nigerian singer, Abolore Akande, popularly known as 9ice, has tendered a public apology to his wife, Sunkanmi Ajala, for cheating. The singer made the plea on Saturday on his Instagram page after a viral video showed him kissing another woman.
9ice openly admits that he made a mistake, and pleaded with his fans to help beg his wife, in a video posted on his instagram page.
He has only been married to sunkanmi Ajala for a year, however, he already has 5 children with 3 different women.
According to him, “I have done a shameful and terrible thing costing me my family. The 9ice you always see is because of my backbone, my wife but the terrible thing I’ve done is costing me a lot. I’ve apologised but I need you guys to help me beg her she’s my backbone.
Twitter peeps think this apology is not genuine, and 9ice is just being apologetic because the video leaked. They also feel he made the whole video about him, his gains, and his feelings, which screams patriachy. Let’s take a look at some of the comments.
“I’ve excelled in so many other things but marriage I’ve been failing. But please help me save this marriage and beg my wife.”
”What stuck out to me immediately I watched a that 9ice’s video is how it was all about him and how he feels.
That’s how selfish people can be. He doesn’t deserve her at all. Pay attention to the words people are saying when they are claiming to apologize to you. That video wasn’t him being sorry about hurting her. It was about what he is feeling now that she has probably shut him out.
9ice scandal came out 3-4 days ago. And 3 days ago he promoted his new song saying people should promote it the same way they are promoting his scandal.
All in all, the apology drama isn’t necessary, maybe he should have sorted other ways in promoting his new song.